Before the US invaded Iraq there was some fear in the Muslim world that Bush 43 would stop at nothing until he stood at the gates of Jerusalem. They saw his moves as part of a Crusade, just as he implied in his own speech. Here was a Christian ready to conquer the Holy Land, just as the Crusaders tried so many centuries ago. A cover story in Newsweek made this even more apparent by focusing on his religious leanings. This is a man who puts God above all else. Not being overly spiritual myself, I don’t fully understand this point of view, but even my friends who are, commented on how much more scary Bush seemed after learning how much of a role religion plays in his life.
I’m not a dumb guy, I realize that Christianity is the dominant religion in this country. I also understand that this country was founded on Christian values. Not Muslim values, not Jewish values, not Hindu or Buddhist values, but Christian values. We’ve evolved over the last 200 odd years and, I thought, had moved beyond this narrow way of thinking. Apparently not.
Today Bush says he’s going to find a way to prevent gay marriage. So, two people love each other, they want to be devoted to one another, they want to spend the rest of their lives together, but we’re not going to recognize that?
Still, I believe Bush when he says he’s not a homophobe. I believe him when he says we should accept people for who they are. But why can’t he take that understanding and bring it to the logical next step and let homosexuals marry? Without marriage, gay couples can’t take advantage of the same legal rights as heterosexual couples. But more importantly, in my opinion, is the mental leap they’re not allowed to make. Marriage ads permanence and heft to the union a couple has, not just in the fact that it takes legal action to break the union, but in the perception of others. Many in this country perceive gay couples as promiscuous or lacking in commitment, when that’s not true. I’m sure there are a portion of them out there who are, but the same goes for heterosexual people.
By recognizing gay marriage, we’re recognizing that gay couples are committed, and that could change America’s perception of homosexuality.